Love is relative. It could mean sex to
some; kissing to others and a whole
lot of foreplay to yet others. But, the
one thing that stays true to all these
three is that love, my dear friend, is
an art. A well-performed, indulgent
form of art that can only be mastered
by the innate feeling of it all.
Emotional or purely physical is
another debate altogether. When
you're in bed with a woman; what
you're primarily doing to her is
making love; making her feel things
she may or may not have felt before.
You instill in her feelings, no matter
how momentary, or everlasting they
might be.When you're in bed with a woman
you're creating art—a poem, a song, a
story, or a painting. You're creating
energy and movement that makes
even the disbelieving woman believe;
the atheist convert and the angered
calm their nerves.
So how do you take a woman to
your bed, and not have sex but
make love to her, instead?
You start by taking her out—to a
fancy place. Treat her like a queen.
Open the champagne, pour her a
glass, pull the chair out for her; hold
the door. Ask her what her tastes and
preferences are. Look into her eyes.
Smile at her. Take her hand. Go for a
drive. Ask her what she wants to do.
Let her tell you what she wants to
do. Let her be and let her in. Take
her home. Offer her a beverage;
water, maybe. Play some soft music.
Ask her if she's comfortable. Touch
her arm lightly. Lean in while you
talk to her. Ask her questions about
herself. Notice how she laughs or
smiles at something you say. Hold
her gaze. Lean in a bit more. Touch
her cheek. Tell her she's beautiful.
Kiss her softly; yes, on her lips.
Don't make it hard. Keep it soft.
Linger. Pull away a little. Let her see
you. Let her lean in. Kiss her again.
Let your lips linger. Take the lead
and let her follow. Pull her close;
hold her by the waist. Don't force the
touch; let it come naturally. Let her
come closer. Notice her body
language. Notice how she moves.
Hold her in your arms; gently. Trail a
finger down her back. Feel the fabric
of her dress on your skin. Run your
fingers through her hair. Trail a finger
along her jawline; hold her chin up to
yours.Then, take her by the hand. Light a
fire—in the room and in her. Take
your time. Linger. Kiss her more;
passionately, now. Let her know she
is wanted. Let her know you want
her. Right there, right then. Let her
want you back. Right there, right
then. Slowly undo her dress, like your
sculpting a statue; like you're
teaching her to break free. Notice
how her body shifts right into your
arms. Let her unbutton your shirt; let
her take her time. Never stop kissing
her. Linger on her lips. Take her
hands in yours and let your fingers
entwine. Gently stroke the nape of
her neck; gently kiss her neck.
Carry her in your arms and lead her
to the bedroom. You can make love
in any part of the house; but it
should always start in the bedroom.
Lay her down on your bed. Admire
her in that moment; like you're
grateful she's with you. Let her know
you feel lucky to be with her right
then. Don't hesitate—not for a
second; not for a minute. Let her
know you're sure of this; of yourself.
Let her know what you want to make
her feel, And then, make her feel all
of it. With every move and every
touch, don't leave her eyes or her
lips. Treat her. Really treat her—to
the time of her life. Make it about
her.Love—emotional or physical—is all
about giving. It's all about
expressing what you want. When
you're taking a woman, you're giving
to her one of the utmost pleasures of
the world. You want her to feel
special; not because of you, but,
because she deserves to. When
you're taking a woman, you take all
the time in the world—as long as she
wants you to. Making love is about
being there; in the act. It's not a
means to an end. The means is the
end. And that's what makes the
ending even better.
Remember, she is there because she
wants to be there. Not because you
make her want to be there; not
because she needs you. So when you
make love to a woman, like a real
man, you are really just saying
‘Thank you, for being here.'
So when you make love to woman,
like a real man should, you let her in
so she can let you in.
some; kissing to others and a whole
lot of foreplay to yet others. But, the
one thing that stays true to all these
three is that love, my dear friend, is
an art. A well-performed, indulgent
form of art that can only be mastered
by the innate feeling of it all.
Emotional or purely physical is
another debate altogether. When
you're in bed with a woman; what
you're primarily doing to her is
making love; making her feel things
she may or may not have felt before.
You instill in her feelings, no matter
how momentary, or everlasting they
might be.When you're in bed with a woman
you're creating art—a poem, a song, a
story, or a painting. You're creating
energy and movement that makes
even the disbelieving woman believe;
the atheist convert and the angered
calm their nerves.
So how do you take a woman to
your bed, and not have sex but
make love to her, instead?
You start by taking her out—to a
fancy place. Treat her like a queen.
Open the champagne, pour her a
glass, pull the chair out for her; hold
the door. Ask her what her tastes and
preferences are. Look into her eyes.
Smile at her. Take her hand. Go for a
drive. Ask her what she wants to do.
Let her tell you what she wants to
do. Let her be and let her in. Take
her home. Offer her a beverage;
water, maybe. Play some soft music.
Ask her if she's comfortable. Touch
her arm lightly. Lean in while you
talk to her. Ask her questions about
herself. Notice how she laughs or
smiles at something you say. Hold
her gaze. Lean in a bit more. Touch
her cheek. Tell her she's beautiful.
Kiss her softly; yes, on her lips.
Don't make it hard. Keep it soft.
Linger. Pull away a little. Let her see
you. Let her lean in. Kiss her again.
Let your lips linger. Take the lead
and let her follow. Pull her close;
hold her by the waist. Don't force the
touch; let it come naturally. Let her
come closer. Notice her body
language. Notice how she moves.
Hold her in your arms; gently. Trail a
finger down her back. Feel the fabric
of her dress on your skin. Run your
fingers through her hair. Trail a finger
along her jawline; hold her chin up to
yours.Then, take her by the hand. Light a
fire—in the room and in her. Take
your time. Linger. Kiss her more;
passionately, now. Let her know she
is wanted. Let her know you want
her. Right there, right then. Let her
want you back. Right there, right
then. Slowly undo her dress, like your
sculpting a statue; like you're
teaching her to break free. Notice
how her body shifts right into your
arms. Let her unbutton your shirt; let
her take her time. Never stop kissing
her. Linger on her lips. Take her
hands in yours and let your fingers
entwine. Gently stroke the nape of
her neck; gently kiss her neck.
Carry her in your arms and lead her
to the bedroom. You can make love
in any part of the house; but it
should always start in the bedroom.
Lay her down on your bed. Admire
her in that moment; like you're
grateful she's with you. Let her know
you feel lucky to be with her right
then. Don't hesitate—not for a
second; not for a minute. Let her
know you're sure of this; of yourself.
Let her know what you want to make
her feel, And then, make her feel all
of it. With every move and every
touch, don't leave her eyes or her
lips. Treat her. Really treat her—to
the time of her life. Make it about
her.Love—emotional or physical—is all
about giving. It's all about
expressing what you want. When
you're taking a woman, you're giving
to her one of the utmost pleasures of
the world. You want her to feel
special; not because of you, but,
because she deserves to. When
you're taking a woman, you take all
the time in the world—as long as she
wants you to. Making love is about
being there; in the act. It's not a
means to an end. The means is the
end. And that's what makes the
ending even better.
Remember, she is there because she
wants to be there. Not because you
make her want to be there; not
because she needs you. So when you
make love to a woman, like a real
man, you are really just saying
‘Thank you, for being here.'
So when you make love to woman,
like a real man should, you let her in
so she can let you in.
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